I cant believe it is November! I am secretly excited 2009 is almost over though . It has been an interesting year. I Cant say that is has been bad I cant say its been great either! I am just blessed that I wake up every morning go to work and make it home in one piece. So I am beginning to think of my new years resolutions for 2010 and of course a few from 2009 have spilled over LOL. I am still on my weight loss kick my goal in 2009 was to loose 60 pounds sadly I only lost 20. But hell over high water  I am gonna get that video vixen body ( hardwork and dedication is all I need) I am hoping 2010 brings me the happiness I want and I deserve. Currently  I am going to stop searching for my Mr.Right because quite frankly I am tired! Ive been dating since I was Fifteen and I have given my all in relationships just to ended up hurt! Now its time for someone to chase me ! I am happy with the choices I have made so far I wouldn't change them for anything- Very valuable lessons have been learned. I am no longer going to get all excited men because they dont do anything for me to get excited for. You need to put  in effort but not the kind of effort you think is good I will let you know what I want!